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Name: nancy
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7/31/2003
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| So finally, after two years of high school and four years of college, I decided to leave Xanga for Blogspot. Goodbye old friend. Hopefully, there won't be as many dissertations, theological treatises, and cryptic rants, and more simple glimpses into my life and thoughts. May it be an entertaining and edifying read! http://foundngodsluv.blogspot.com/
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| ...but my main preocupation is that I still need a research focus and a THESIS for my paper!!! (My topic is education reform in England between 1640 to 1740,esp. in regards to the Puritans/Dissenters).
After awhile of perusing through these books and pamphlets, I start forgetting that I'm touching things from the 1600s. Like, just right now, I was reading an extremely rare copy of Milton's Tractate on Education. :)
Anyway, I'm getting used to the "s" that look like "f" and other weird 17th-Century spelling things. And now I want to title every paper I write something like, "A brief proposal expounding the various ways in which the causations of..."
Here is one of my favorite quotes from texts that I've read so far. I'm going to try to find some way to incorporate it into my paper. From Richard Baxter's Catechizing of Families:
"Man is born without Knowledge, but not without a Capacity and faculty of Knowing, this is his Excellency and Essence... The wisest men are the best, and the best of the wisest, but a Counterfeit of Knowledge is the great deceiver of the World. Millions take the Knowledge of bare Words, with the Gramatical and Logical sense, instead of the Knowledge of the things themselves which by these are signified; as if the Glass should nourish without the Wine, or the Dish without the Meat, or the Cloathing or Skin were all the man…But yet the Words are signs, by which we are helpt to know the things, and must diligently be learned to that end; and though men cannot reach the Heart, God...hath written the Scripture to that use, that by them his Spirit may teach or illuminate the Mind, and renew the Heart: God worketh on man as man, and we must know by Signs, till we know by intuition. " | | |
| At the beginning of this year, someone asked me what my favorite/most memorable moment from leading a small group was, and I said that it was the baptism of one of my girls. There is nothing like hearing someone's testimony of God's grace in their life, of the joy and overflowing thankfulness in redemption, and the resolve to love, serve, and worship Christ all of their days... and hearing how whatever little feeble attempt of ministry you rendered was used to help bring all that about!!! A mind-blowing, awesome, unfathomable work of God!
Tonight I had the privilege of seeing such a moment again, as we celebrated the baptism of another former small groupie of mine. The most encouraging part for me was seeing how much God used HIS word and how little I had anything to do with her repentance and faith. Honestly, looking back, I could have done much better as a small group leader. To illustrate my shortcomings as a leader, I didn't even know that she came to Christ while she was in my small group last year until this past quarter, when I also found out that she was going to get baptized (which I thought she had already done before...). Yeah... not the most perceptive of disciplers... BUT, by the grace of God, He still used our study of Colossians and the friendship of those in the sg to lead her to Him!
I felt really, really humbled during Nathan Busenitz's sermon after the baptism, when he talked about how Noah and Jeremiah saw NO ONE come to repentance through their ministry, yet God still considers them to be spiritual successes. I am certainly not more significant or righteous or faithful than Jeremiah, yet God, in His secret wisdom, has somehow willed that I would be an instrument in the salvation of two people in one short year, when He did not give Jeremiah any fruit over an entire lifetime! What privilege...may I never take that for granted!
I write this entry tonight, not to boast about my ministry (see second paragraph...yeah...not much to boast about there...), but to give praise to God and to help me remember His faithfulness, so that in the good times, my heart will not be lifted up in pride, and during the tough times, I will not lose sight and be discouraged.
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| Every time I read one of Grace Mark's blog entries, I want to re-post here, just because of how amazing and edifying it is. Usually I'm just astounded by her strength in the Lord, and while today was no exception, I was more amazed with just God himself. I'm so glad that God is using her talent in writing and her life to bless us!
Here is the entry, slightly abridged:
A Vacation
I had mentioned to a neighbor, Melissa, who was really trying to reach out to me as Andrew was dying, that if he died, I wanted to be stolen away for a few days for a short vacation. I had more expected to go with my mom somewhere. But, Andrew ended up dying mid-winter, and anywhere local to Minnesota in February was icy tundra. When things began to settle down a bit, Melissa kept mentioning going on a vacation somewhere... So Melissa and I planned a trip to Florida. At the beginning of April, I went with the kids, Melissa, and her daughter to Clearwater, Florida for a short vacation.
In the meantime, around 6 weeks the daily crying began to subside. I had been surprised that the pain I was feeling was less fresh and sharp. It was about 7 weeks since Andrew's death when we left for Florida. And so I thought I would be fine when we arrived in Florida, as it was one place I had never been to with Andrew.
As we rode on the airplane, AJ suddenly looked very downcast sitting in the blue seats of Sun Country Airlines. He said, "I just feel so sad because I don't have my Papa." It didn't matter where we were going. We were in the blue seats without Papa...
We arrived at my aunt's condo right on the Florida gulf and instead of feeling I was in unexplored territory that could not remind me of my love, every memory I had of every vacation I had with Andrew flew at me. They began to coincide into one memory, so that I would have to think through them, separate them, organize them into the proper time and place. My aunt's condo was right on the beach with a beautiful view of the water. Andrew loved views...
I had brought with me the book Heaven by Randy Alcorn. As I read from it each night, I began to long for the beautiful, vivid place my love was already enjoying...
On Saturday, it was a clear sunny day. The water had a gorgeous greenish-blue tint and the sand was white. It was our day to spend at the beach behind our condo. While we were leaving the condo, I discovered that I had been missing my purse since the night before. I had gotten distracted by the kids and was desperately missing Andrew, laid it down somewhere, and didn't think of it till morning. After realizing where I had left it and checking all possible lost and founds, it became obvious that someone had taken advantage of the opportunity and stolen my purse.
The most distressing thing about it was that I needed my license to be able to fly back to Minnesota Monday and I needed my cell phone that was in the purse because there was a voicemail on it that I had been saving for over a year.
The voicemail was of Andrew telling me about a conversation he had had with AJ, when AJ had told Andrew that he wanted to pray that Jesus would save him. A month after Andrew left that message, he was diagnosed with cancer for the 2nd time and our lives never were the same again. I called my cell phone company about suspending my plan until I switched it to a new phone. They said that if I switched my plan to a new cell phone, then my voicemail would be lost forever. I felt so hopeless and longed for Andrew to return to me so much that it felt like I could reach my hand through the veil of eternity and touch him.
That afternoon, I couldn't stop thinking about the movie Prince Caspian, that we had just watched with the kids the other night. How the kings were too proud, self-reliant and had too little faith to go to Aslan (the Jesus figure) with their hopeless situation. But when they were finally at the end of themselves and went to Aslan, Aslan simply roared and it was so easy for everything to obey him to defeat the enemy.
I cried out to God that He promises to be a Husband to the husbandless, and that He knew this would never have happened if I had had my husband. I told the Lord that I was in a situation that was too big for me but was so easy for Him to handle. Using Melissa's cell phone, I called my cell phone several times for about the 20th time that day. A minute after praying, Melissa's cell phone rang saying that "Grace" was calling. I immediately answered like a small animal that had just been run over and was gasping its last word: "Pleease," I answered the phone with. "My husband just died and I'm really having a hard time. Pleeease, I just need my license and my cell phone back. Pleeeease."
My sister had specifically been praying that they would have a change of heart, and, indeed, that is what had happened to these teenagers. They said, "Yeah, we'll return your stuff," acting like it was the most normal thing in the world. In God's sovereignty, He hadn't allow me to cancel my cell phone. If I had, they would have never been able to call me back on Melissa's cell phone.
At the end of the conversation I said, "Can I ask you why you want to return it to me?"
They said, "Why? Cause it's the right thing to do."
The Lord gave me a heart of compassion for them, and I felt moved to bring them something that would tell them about Jesus. I had them meet me at the security guard.
When I arrived to meet them, the security guard was already grilling them. They said it was their friend who had stolen my purse and they were just returning it. They gave me back my cell phone and wallet containing everything in it, complete with $2 bill and gift cards. I had brought Andrew's Bible with me to meet them (it was a cheap pew Bible that he had bought last year and he had carried around with him ever since then. He had written his name in thick black ink). I handed it to them and said, "My husband died two months ago at the age of 27 from cancer. If you had known him 10 years ago, you probably would have been friends with him." I told them to read the book of John or Romans. They lowered their chins and looked up at me, slowly nodding.
They felt so bad that they returned again to the security guard with Andrew's Bible, a few hours later and confessed to me that they were the real thieves. I made them keep his Bible and told them that's what Andrew would want them to have. They said that every lie they had said felt like a knife stab.
It was like the Lord had pursued them like an angry husband who was looking out for his wife, only this Husband was omnipresent and could follow them in their car and could influence their consciences.
What kept coming to mind as I stood before them was that nothing anyone could do to me, no matter how horrible that day was, could compare to what I did to Jesus on the cross, nailing Him there daily with each of my sins. I had been reading the book of Luke, and so many of the passages kept flying to mind.
"And the Pharisees and their scribes grumbled at his disciples, saying, 'Why do you eat and drink with tax collectors and sinners?' And Jesus answered them, 'Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. I have not come to call the righteous but sinners to repentance' (Luke 5:30-32). What does this passage mean when Romans 3 says that "There is no one righteous, not even one." If we don't see ourselves in the same category as "tax collectors and sinners" and thieves who are all in desperate need of Jesus' mercy, then perhaps it is not because we are not sinners, but because we are in the same category as the self-righteous Pharisees, which Jesus thought was even worse. We are all tax collectors, sinners, and thieves, even if our sin takes on a different face. Before God, we are all guilty. I didn't feel angry at them, because Jesus wasn't angry at me. He forgives and accepts me every day. That was something Andrew had taught me by his own eagerness to forgive and accept me every day. I mentioned that I forgave them to which one of them exclaimed "YOU DO???" They said they had never done anything like this before and that they had stolen from the wrong person. I said, "No, God allowed this to happen so that you could hear about Jesus and give your lives to Him." I told them that at the same time, though, God was not pleased with what they had done and that they would have to stand before God - any moment, we couldn't know when - and answer at His Judgment throne for stealing my purse from me. I said, "This isn't the first sin you've committed in your life -" "No, it isn't!" one of them exclaimed. "You have sinned against God your whole life. And you will either have to pay in hell for all eternity, or Jesus can pay for all of your sins for you if you ask for His forgiveness and submit your lives to Him. Then you can enjoy Him now and for all eternity." I kept telling them about Jesus and that they could only find relief from a life of guilt in Him. "Okay, we want to do that now, then!" one of them said. "But you pray for us," he said, "since you know how to do that."
I prayed for them - with my eyes open - again explaining how one can know Jesus. I said "Dear Lord, I pray for these young men, who's real names I don't really know -" they interjected their real names - and then I continued.
When I finished, I said, "Now, I can't save you. Only Jesus can. You will have to give your lives to Him yourselves. But there is a price. Any one who follows Jesus is promised suffering. But Jesus if far better than anything you are pursuing here. He is far better than any pleasures you are living for."
I shared with them Andrew's testimony and as I kept telling them the gospel in many different ways, one of them began to look increasingly angry, while the other one looked increasinly wide-eyed and attentive.
Towards the end of my conversation with them, I showed them in the Bible where John and Romans were. The attentive one said, "I've never read a book in my life, but I will definitely read this one!" I gave them my email address if they had any questions about what I told them to read, but that I wouldn't have internet access until I returned home.
When I arrived in Minnesota Monday evening, there were three emails from the particularly attentive one and that he had started to read the Bible. He said he didn't really understand it, but that he would keep reading it over and over until he did understand, like I had told him Andrew had done.
Eventually, he mentioned that his grandmother, who he lived with, goes to church (I looked it up and it is Southern Baptist), and she had helped him by telling him just to read and a passage would stick out for him.
I looked up some churches in the area and sent him to a Sovereign Grace church. He actually went on Easter! Please pray that He would give his life to Jesus.
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